Hello,
I will not answer on Delft-3D. At EDF we use Telemac-3D for hydrodynamics and Delwaq for water quality, the two understand each other very well regarding mass conservation.
Telemac-3D will be released as open source next July, and universities can have it right now by signing an agreement (given the time it would take, better wait July...). You can also have Telemac-3D right now by paying an assistance contract.
On the technical part: Telemac-2D was from the origin specifically designed for dam breaks and performs very well on dry zones, with a number of specific algorithms (see test cases on malpasset in folder test.fr). Then it is easy to have the same result with Telemac-3D (same mesh, layers of 2D meshes superimposed to do prisms...) and the robustness is the same (see also malpasset test case in 3D), it can even work with 1 layer of elements on the vertical (factor 3 to 4 in computer time compared to 2D!). It is a full non hydrostatic Navier-Stokes, and work also in domain decomposition, several 10s of thousands of processors already tested.
A typical test case of overtopping with Telemac-2D is the one called "digue" in the test.fr folder.
I hope this helps,
With best regards,
Jean-Michel Hervouet