The only "nei" file format that I'm aware of is the TriGrid nei format.
BlueKenue supports Trigrid "neigh" and "node" files.
On Mike21 files...
Unfortunately DHI has this crazy notion that their BINARY file formats are valuable intellectual property and as such are a closely guarded secret.
However it is a fairly simple matter to convert their ASCII .mesh files to t3s and then load them with BlueKenue. This of course won't help if you wish to load the results, but it's something...
I've considered adding direct support for the .mesh format but there has never been a real burning need here.
Hope this helps... Martin
P.S. If someone in the community has deciphered the .dfs* file formats I'd be interested in hearing about it and would be willing to add support for these files to Blue Kenue.